9/7/10-Spiritual Gifts

Growing up, my family always teased me because even as a child, my directness was startling. Never one to beat around the bush, I clearly articulate exactly what people need to hear, whether or not they want to hear it. Other comrades bless the world with cheerfulness or encouragement or mercy, but I have the “unique” ability to “just tell it like it is.” In addition, I have always just “gotten people.” Friends and strangers find in me a person willing to listen and give insight into decision-making. Although I am not someone who could be considered “emotional”, I enjoy listening to the emotional struggles of others and encouraging them in the way of the Lord. After the initial emotional catharsis finishes, I draw the conversation back around to the logical side instead of the “feelings and mush” side and help direct whomever I am speaking with to decision-making and behavioral change according to God’s word and His will. In groups, I naturally watch people instead of taking the spotlight and running my mouth, but when I do say something, people listen to me. My loving heart and clear-mind combine to express my spiritual gift of exhortation.